Wondering

Arrghh...i feel so moody and dissapointed every now and then. The saying " love is able to turn a human to a beaming creature, but, it has the power to unhinge the most rational of us " is of bull's eye.

I should never ever put any hopes in getting any simple lil' things that only meant to me in return, to avoid any disspointments. I start thinking back on what Penny told me half year ago, in which I never seemed to put it in heart initially because I was yet to come across that transition period she mentioned.

Penny told me, there might be arguemnts and misunderstandings between a couple when both parties start working. She broke up with her bf once and after 2 years separation, the love birds get together again and got married.

Thinking rationally, what Penny said is very true. People would have different perceptions and thinking at different stages in different ages. The maturity developed will tell us which to prioritze on. Like, during the Uni time, there were not much things to shoulder besides academic stuffs and activities. One will have more time for the partner. Hence,a well knitted relationship is built.

Once both join the work force, things might change. One will not have time to focus solely on a single thing. There are many things to shoulder. Be it money, work, family, future as well as relationship. Pressurized works made one worn out. One feels exhausted to talk and to communicate like the past.

Sometimes, things need to be shared at that moment when it happened and we dont feel like telling anymore once it passed so long. The things worsen if both are far aparted. My question is, can a long distanced relationship keeps it's warmth still?