Love and Pride Go Together But Can Be Disastrous

well...it has been some while i didnt update my blog.....hehe...coz bitten by lazy bugsss larr...(okay okay...got tagged by sheng wa a.k.a. hao gong waa oso....will "un"tag after this =D =D )...here are some awesome stuffs to share with u guys...

Love and pride go together but can be disastrous
SIGHTS & SOUNDS By XANDRIA OOI-THE STAR

OVER the past year, I have learned a thing or two about love. I find the power of love fascinating and contradictory at the same time.

Besides being able to turn a perfectly normal person into a giddy, beaming creature; love also has the power to unhinge the most rational of us.

If you’ve ever been in love, you might agree that love can make us a little insane at times.

An intelligent, successful person would cry, beg and flood their partner’s mailbox with a dozen incoherent messages, all because of love. In the face of love, any pride that we might have gets flushed down the drain.

There also are instances where the opposite is true.

I find that love and pride are so closely intertwined that the mere movement towards one or the other can change the outcome of an disagreement between couples.

Anger and pride are also never far from each other. It is anger that spurs us to make the most hurtful remarks and it is pride that stills our tongue when we want to say we’re sorry.

Anger makes us forget ourselves and gives us a temporary sense of power. We say things we don’t mean and when we want to run after the one we love, it is our pride that keeps us rooted to the ground.

No one is perfect and it is our battle with pride and anger that makes up human love. We either allow anger and pride to take over or we can try very hard to let love do the talking.

After all, pride, anger and regret will not keep us warm at night.

Love is also a very strange notion. We can promise our partner the earth and the sky, whisk them away on luxurious holidays and feel happier when we hear their voice on the telephone; yet we can be rude to them, careless with their feelings and take them for granted.

You wouldn’t put as much effort into a friendship and you also wouldn’t abuse it; yet when it comes to relationships, you could be operating on both ends of the scale at the same time.

It doesn’t take one long to figure out that we are at our most vulnerable when we are in love. Even the strongest and meanest have been known to be defeated by it.

Love may have the power to heal, but it also certainly has the power to break someone and turn them into a shadow of their former self.

I have found that showing our love is not just giving what comes naturally to us when we are happy.

It is always easy to love someone when we’re in a good mood but when things aren’t so peachy it can be such a struggle to remember how to show that love.

Although I am a naturally affectionate person, I find myself behaving more like Mr Hyde than Dr Jekyll when angry or upset; ashamed as I am to admit.

“Never make a decision when you’re angry” is a motto that I’m glad my boyfriend practices and has constantly reminded me to stand by.

Falling in love is easy but no one seems to advertise the fact that it isn’t as simple to sustain that wondrous feeling.

The thing is, we can have the best education from the most prestigious university, but when it comes to the matters of the heart, we have no way of preparing for it.

There is no other way to understand love than to learn about it the hard way and hope that our heart, and the hearts of those who love us, survive the ride.

I don’t find Valentine’s Day overrated as I see it as an anniversary of love.

After an entire year of learning about love and being a better person because of it, wouldn’t you want to celebrate too?

The Gas Law

I SWEAR I NEVER seen such a guy. Or…Shall I tag him as a gay?

Oh please DUDE…! Blindly “ small gasING ” over there can lead to a string of trouble.

Frankly speaking, your hideousness and frightful thought and action are quite an EYE-OPENER for me as I never came across these kinda people neither guys nor gals.

I am still wondering…okay…I have ard accepted the fact that, there are guys with such a narrow “gassing” level…hahahaha…I think I shall study back the Ideal Gas Law ? Henry’s Law ? N I found this lerrrr-- THE RAOULT’S LAW whereby…the heavy of a species increase with decreasing portion of gaseous phase. Erm…I guess so…heheheheheherrrrr~~~

In fact, I am not a girl fond of throwing accusations on people. I told myself to keep steady with the holistic “small gas” of u at first…But ended up wondering wondering…n wondering still…Really cant tahan de lerrrr

Okay…my dear dude, having arbitrary mindset and “unreasonable small gassing small actions” are tat off awful u noe? Don’t always keep lamenting over the lack of your knowledge and standards without having an appropriate thinking and perception. And I do think tats the essential part for u to ponder… It is for your own good.
Okay okay?

Countdown Spree~~

New Year countdown has become part n parcel of my campus life as it turns to be the perfect time to relax and unwind after a day or two of U resume…(yalar…always happened to be on 28 or 29 Dec)…N well, its time to HANG out n paint the town red!!

Countdown of 2006. Fortunately, we got the VIP priority of DIGI Street party. Yayy! Feeling great owing that we no need to squeeze into the huge crowd.

Countdown of 2007. Something unpleasant happened few days before the brand new year…Im glad that, I still manage to put up my smile for the celebration.owhHh...chubby me =.=

Countdown of 2008. Nice view indeed.

Countdown of 2009. Had a craziest one! Thank you everyone..These were some of the girls tat nite..
Okay,,,this is blur i noe...here comes the clearer one...but with my eyes closed...sure lar..the flash too GENG!