Arrghh...i feel so moody and dissapointed every now and then. The saying " love is able to turn a human to a beaming creature, but, it has the power to unhinge the most rational of us " is of bull's eye.
I should never ever put any hopes in getting any simple lil' things that only meant to me in return, to avoid any disspointments. I start thinking back on what Penny told me half year ago, in which I never seemed to put it in heart initially because I was yet to come across that transition period she mentioned.
Penny told me, there might be arguemnts and misunderstandings between a couple when both parties start working. She broke up with her bf once and after 2 years separation, the love birds get together again and got married.
Thinking rationally, what Penny said is very true. People would have different perceptions and thinking at different stages in different ages. The maturity developed will tell us which to prioritze on. Like, during the Uni time, there were not much things to shoulder besides academic stuffs and activities. One will have more time for the partner. Hence,a well knitted relationship is built.
Once both join the work force, things might change. One will not have time to focus solely on a single thing. There are many things to shoulder. Be it money, work, family, future as well as relationship. Pressurized works made one worn out. One feels exhausted to talk and to communicate like the past.
Sometimes, things need to be shared at that moment when it happened and we dont feel like telling anymore once it passed so long. The things worsen if both are far aparted. My question is, can a long distanced relationship keeps it's warmth still?
Monday, September 13, 2010
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Love and Pride Go Together But Can Be Disastrous
well...it has been some while i didnt update my blog.....hehe...coz bitten by lazy bugsss larr...(okay okay...got tagged by sheng wa a.k.a. hao gong waa oso....will "un"tag after this =D =D )...here are some awesome stuffs to share with u guys...
Love and pride go together but can be disastrous
SIGHTS & SOUNDS By XANDRIA OOI-THE STAR
OVER the past year, I have learned a thing or two about love. I find the power of love fascinating and contradictory at the same time.
Besides being able to turn a perfectly normal person into a giddy, beaming creature; love also has the power to unhinge the most rational of us.
If you’ve ever been in love, you might agree that love can make us a little insane at times.
An intelligent, successful person would cry, beg and flood their partner’s mailbox with a dozen incoherent messages, all because of love. In the face of love, any pride that we might have gets flushed down the drain.
There also are instances where the opposite is true.
I find that love and pride are so closely intertwined that the mere movement towards one or the other can change the outcome of an disagreement between couples.
Anger and pride are also never far from each other. It is anger that spurs us to make the most hurtful remarks and it is pride that stills our tongue when we want to say we’re sorry.
Anger makes us forget ourselves and gives us a temporary sense of power. We say things we don’t mean and when we want to run after the one we love, it is our pride that keeps us rooted to the ground.
No one is perfect and it is our battle with pride and anger that makes up human love. We either allow anger and pride to take over or we can try very hard to let love do the talking.
After all, pride, anger and regret will not keep us warm at night.
Love is also a very strange notion. We can promise our partner the earth and the sky, whisk them away on luxurious holidays and feel happier when we hear their voice on the telephone; yet we can be rude to them, careless with their feelings and take them for granted.
You wouldn’t put as much effort into a friendship and you also wouldn’t abuse it; yet when it comes to relationships, you could be operating on both ends of the scale at the same time.
It doesn’t take one long to figure out that we are at our most vulnerable when we are in love. Even the strongest and meanest have been known to be defeated by it.
Love may have the power to heal, but it also certainly has the power to break someone and turn them into a shadow of their former self.
I have found that showing our love is not just giving what comes naturally to us when we are happy.
It is always easy to love someone when we’re in a good mood but when things aren’t so peachy it can be such a struggle to remember how to show that love.
Although I am a naturally affectionate person, I find myself behaving more like Mr Hyde than Dr Jekyll when angry or upset; ashamed as I am to admit.
“Never make a decision when you’re angry” is a motto that I’m glad my boyfriend practices and has constantly reminded me to stand by.
Falling in love is easy but no one seems to advertise the fact that it isn’t as simple to sustain that wondrous feeling.
The thing is, we can have the best education from the most prestigious university, but when it comes to the matters of the heart, we have no way of preparing for it.
There is no other way to understand love than to learn about it the hard way and hope that our heart, and the hearts of those who love us, survive the ride.
I don’t find Valentine’s Day overrated as I see it as an anniversary of love.
After an entire year of learning about love and being a better person because of it, wouldn’t you want to celebrate too?
Love and pride go together but can be disastrous
SIGHTS & SOUNDS By XANDRIA OOI-THE STAR
OVER the past year, I have learned a thing or two about love. I find the power of love fascinating and contradictory at the same time.
Besides being able to turn a perfectly normal person into a giddy, beaming creature; love also has the power to unhinge the most rational of us.
If you’ve ever been in love, you might agree that love can make us a little insane at times.
An intelligent, successful person would cry, beg and flood their partner’s mailbox with a dozen incoherent messages, all because of love. In the face of love, any pride that we might have gets flushed down the drain.
There also are instances where the opposite is true.
I find that love and pride are so closely intertwined that the mere movement towards one or the other can change the outcome of an disagreement between couples.
Anger and pride are also never far from each other. It is anger that spurs us to make the most hurtful remarks and it is pride that stills our tongue when we want to say we’re sorry.
Anger makes us forget ourselves and gives us a temporary sense of power. We say things we don’t mean and when we want to run after the one we love, it is our pride that keeps us rooted to the ground.
No one is perfect and it is our battle with pride and anger that makes up human love. We either allow anger and pride to take over or we can try very hard to let love do the talking.
After all, pride, anger and regret will not keep us warm at night.
Love is also a very strange notion. We can promise our partner the earth and the sky, whisk them away on luxurious holidays and feel happier when we hear their voice on the telephone; yet we can be rude to them, careless with their feelings and take them for granted.
You wouldn’t put as much effort into a friendship and you also wouldn’t abuse it; yet when it comes to relationships, you could be operating on both ends of the scale at the same time.
It doesn’t take one long to figure out that we are at our most vulnerable when we are in love. Even the strongest and meanest have been known to be defeated by it.
Love may have the power to heal, but it also certainly has the power to break someone and turn them into a shadow of their former self.
I have found that showing our love is not just giving what comes naturally to us when we are happy.
It is always easy to love someone when we’re in a good mood but when things aren’t so peachy it can be such a struggle to remember how to show that love.
Although I am a naturally affectionate person, I find myself behaving more like Mr Hyde than Dr Jekyll when angry or upset; ashamed as I am to admit.
“Never make a decision when you’re angry” is a motto that I’m glad my boyfriend practices and has constantly reminded me to stand by.
Falling in love is easy but no one seems to advertise the fact that it isn’t as simple to sustain that wondrous feeling.
The thing is, we can have the best education from the most prestigious university, but when it comes to the matters of the heart, we have no way of preparing for it.
There is no other way to understand love than to learn about it the hard way and hope that our heart, and the hearts of those who love us, survive the ride.
I don’t find Valentine’s Day overrated as I see it as an anniversary of love.
After an entire year of learning about love and being a better person because of it, wouldn’t you want to celebrate too?
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
The Gas Law
I SWEAR I NEVER seen such a guy. Or…Shall I tag him as a gay?
Oh please DUDE…! Blindly “ small gasING ” over there can lead to a string of trouble.
Frankly speaking, your hideousness and frightful thought and action are quite an EYE-OPENER for me as I never came across these kinda people neither guys nor gals.
I am still wondering…okay…I have ard accepted the fact that, there are guys with such a narrow “gassing” level…hahahaha…I think I shall study back the Ideal Gas Law ? Henry’s Law ? N I found this lerrrr-- THE RAOULT’S LAW whereby…the heavy of a species increase with decreasing portion of gaseous phase. Erm…I guess so…heheheheheherrrrr~~~
In fact, I am not a girl fond of throwing accusations on people. I told myself to keep steady with the holistic “small gas” of u at first…But ended up wondering wondering…n wondering still…Really cant tahan de lerrrr
Okay…my dear dude, having arbitrary mindset and “unreasonable small gassing small actions” are tat off awful u noe? Don’t always keep lamenting over the lack of your knowledge and standards without having an appropriate thinking and perception. And I do think tats the essential part for u to ponder… It is for your own good.
Okay okay?
Oh please DUDE…! Blindly “ small gasING ” over there can lead to a string of trouble.
Frankly speaking, your hideousness and frightful thought and action are quite an EYE-OPENER for me as I never came across these kinda people neither guys nor gals.
I am still wondering…okay…I have ard accepted the fact that, there are guys with such a narrow “gassing” level…hahahaha…I think I shall study back the Ideal Gas Law ? Henry’s Law ? N I found this lerrrr-- THE RAOULT’S LAW whereby…the heavy of a species increase with decreasing portion of gaseous phase. Erm…I guess so…heheheheheherrrrr~~~
In fact, I am not a girl fond of throwing accusations on people. I told myself to keep steady with the holistic “small gas” of u at first…But ended up wondering wondering…n wondering still…Really cant tahan de lerrrr
Okay…my dear dude, having arbitrary mindset and “unreasonable small gassing small actions” are tat off awful u noe? Don’t always keep lamenting over the lack of your knowledge and standards without having an appropriate thinking and perception. And I do think tats the essential part for u to ponder… It is for your own good.
Okay okay?
Monday, January 5, 2009
Countdown Spree~~
New Year countdown has become part n parcel of my campus life as it turns to be the perfect time to relax and unwind after a day or two of U resume…(yalar…always happened to be on 28 or 29 Dec)…N well, its time to HANG out n paint the town red!!
Countdown of 2006. Fortunately, we got the VIP priority of DIGI Street party. Yayy! Feeling great owing that we no need to squeeze into the huge crowd.
Countdown of 2007. Something unpleasant happened few days before the brand new year…Im glad that, I still manage to put up my smile for the celebration.owhHh...chubby me =.=.jpg)
Countdown of 2008. Nice view indeed.
Countdown of 2009. Had a craziest one! Thank you everyone..These were some of the girls tat nite..
Okay,,,this is blur i noe...here comes the clearer one...but with my eyes closed...sure lar..the flash too GENG!
Countdown of 2006. Fortunately, we got the VIP priority of DIGI Street party. Yayy! Feeling great owing that we no need to squeeze into the huge crowd.
Countdown of 2007. Something unpleasant happened few days before the brand new year…Im glad that, I still manage to put up my smile for the celebration.owhHh...chubby me =.=
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Countdown of 2008. Nice view indeed.
Countdown of 2009. Had a craziest one! Thank you everyone..These were some of the girls tat nite..
Okay,,,this is blur i noe...here comes the clearer one...but with my eyes closed...sure lar..the flash too GENG!
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Feliz Año Nuevo 2009
Here comes the end of 2008...
Well,2009 is going to be the TURNING POINT of mine...n many of my friends as well...Hope everything goes well and fine.
HAPPY 2009 AHEAD
Well,2009 is going to be the TURNING POINT of mine...n many of my friends as well...Hope everything goes well and fine.
HAPPY 2009 AHEAD
Thursday, November 27, 2008
things that piss me off
1. Liars…opsS…I can’t bear the trauma of being lied please. I rather choose to noe the truth instead of packs of lies. Don’t u? Those liars are truly ruddy idiots.
2. Those taking everything for granted, never try to listen to people’s advice, never appreciate. Yet perfect in accusation of people.
3. Those breaking their promises. Please never make any rash promises to me that u are unlikely to be able to keep. Not even a small one please… No one likes to wait for nothing right? Don’t u ever noe the “bitter” feeling of disappointments? Stop these detestable habits.
4. Undeniably, im a crazy and superb playful gal. People tend to kidding around with me always. But, please beware of any unfavorable feedbacks or reactions from me (if im not in mood or out of favor with u)…u r gonna freak me out with tat n please stop it. Okay?
5. Flirts! U r terrible…Do not flirt with me please…Im not fond of these. (Except my beloved =)
6. Sincerely, thanks for missing…I can say, im glad to be missed (yeakks!) True =) Guys, please do not pose me the question—“Do u miss me?”…okay? It turns to be a nuisance as I was trying hard to answer them. Not to force me ok? (Except my beloved n girl friends)
7. Not replying messages is impolite. Agree?
8. Selfish people tat thinking first of his or her own interests n needs without sparing some thoughts for others welfare or feelings.
9. Looking down on those who’ve never been serious in relationship…Make it be parental relationship, couple relationship or friendship…If u r the one, please get away from me before u drive me off. .
2. Those taking everything for granted, never try to listen to people’s advice, never appreciate. Yet perfect in accusation of people.
3. Those breaking their promises. Please never make any rash promises to me that u are unlikely to be able to keep. Not even a small one please… No one likes to wait for nothing right? Don’t u ever noe the “bitter” feeling of disappointments? Stop these detestable habits.
4. Undeniably, im a crazy and superb playful gal. People tend to kidding around with me always. But, please beware of any unfavorable feedbacks or reactions from me (if im not in mood or out of favor with u)…u r gonna freak me out with tat n please stop it. Okay?
5. Flirts! U r terrible…Do not flirt with me please…Im not fond of these. (Except my beloved =)
6. Sincerely, thanks for missing…I can say, im glad to be missed (yeakks!) True =) Guys, please do not pose me the question—“Do u miss me?”…okay? It turns to be a nuisance as I was trying hard to answer them. Not to force me ok? (Except my beloved n girl friends)
7. Not replying messages is impolite. Agree?
8. Selfish people tat thinking first of his or her own interests n needs without sparing some thoughts for others welfare or feelings.
9. Looking down on those who’ve never been serious in relationship…Make it be parental relationship, couple relationship or friendship…If u r the one, please get away from me before u drive me off. .
Friday, November 14, 2008
moody
Im gonna freak out!!!
Moodiness and disappointments fill every now and then.
Silly yeng, not everyone has ur best intentions at heart…shake urself out of this frame…grow up!
Keeping feeling bottled up made me suffocate...I cant bear with that…
I started to miss my family, my lovely daddy n my lovely mummy that much…Dear joyce…I need ur shoulder =(
Packing and going back…
Moodiness and disappointments fill every now and then.
Silly yeng, not everyone has ur best intentions at heart…shake urself out of this frame…grow up!
Keeping feeling bottled up made me suffocate...I cant bear with that…
I started to miss my family, my lovely daddy n my lovely mummy that much…Dear joyce…I need ur shoulder =(
Packing and going back…
Friday, November 7, 2008
makan makan
Steamboat again
This appeared to be my second steamboat @ serdang lately. We were so keyed up for the eating after our last paper. yay yay...
The makan trip consists of me, peh yiin, apple peng , wen li, tee hui, wee meng, chu siong and kit how aka 豪哥. No doubt, it was a pleasant n memorable dinner…especially when u guys see wee meng aka jkkp god eat till 回本!!!
Makan "aftermath"
Outcomes of exams~~ eye bag,swollen eye n chubby cheeks
left ~ apple,yeng,pyiin,wenli~
all of us shocked by wee meng...he planned to dump all of these seaweed into the soup.
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He is forced to finish all n ended up with tears,,,hahaha,,,kidding kidding
This enoyable dinner took us 3 hours more n our stomach is getting burst.
This appeared to be my second steamboat @ serdang lately. We were so keyed up for the eating after our last paper. yay yay...
The makan trip consists of me, peh yiin, apple peng , wen li, tee hui, wee meng, chu siong and kit how aka 豪哥. No doubt, it was a pleasant n memorable dinner…especially when u guys see wee meng aka jkkp god eat till 回本!!!
Makan "aftermath"
Outcomes of exams~~ eye bag,swollen eye n chubby cheeks 
left ~ apple,yeng,pyiin,wenli~
all of us shocked by wee meng...he planned to dump all of these seaweed into the soup.+of+DSC01408.jpg)
He is forced to finish all n ended up with tears,,,hahaha,,,kidding kiddingThis enoyable dinner took us 3 hours more n our stomach is getting burst.
ExamS Ended
Exams ended eventually.
In fact, there were just 2 papers for this semester.
Although the semester comes to the end,
but I still bound with lab tests lab tests N lab tests nevertheless.
In all,it makes no differencesS…
In fact, there were just 2 papers for this semester.
Although the semester comes to the end,
but I still bound with lab tests lab tests N lab tests nevertheless.
In all,it makes no differencesS…
NEVER
I was asked to attend a function on Sunday by daddy all in a sudden.
My godness i yelled…I got no dresses or blouses…n shoes for that function ler… (eher..coz all kena pindah to Bangi. Some more im not going out for any shopping n outings as well @ hometown tat week too—tats y didn’t bring any blouses back).
I felt distraught since I failed to turn my daddy down…oPssS…
Afterall…I started to “unload” everything in my cupboard for something to match the shoe I left here…My bed was in a state of chaos!
N finally…I wore the dress bought three years ago. I still managed to fit in fortunately. kekeke...
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To be frank…I would NEVER wear tat again!! Feeling so weird as the dress was too “kawaii” style. What a disgust seeing myself in such a frightful “mui mui zai” look…Oh gosh ///
My godness i yelled…I got no dresses or blouses…n shoes for that function ler… (eher..coz all kena pindah to Bangi. Some more im not going out for any shopping n outings as well @ hometown tat week too—tats y didn’t bring any blouses back).
I felt distraught since I failed to turn my daddy down…oPssS…
Afterall…I started to “unload” everything in my cupboard for something to match the shoe I left here…My bed was in a state of chaos!
N finally…I wore the dress bought three years ago. I still managed to fit in fortunately. kekeke...
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To be frank…I would NEVER wear tat again!! Feeling so weird as the dress was too “kawaii” style. What a disgust seeing myself in such a frightful “mui mui zai” look…Oh gosh ///
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